Tell her you’re only confiding in her because you know you can trust her. Have your friend promise not to repeat what you say to anyone else. But before you open up to someone other than your partner, set some ground rules, says Kuriansky. Whether you want to brag or blow off steam about your sex life, your BFF can be a great person to turn to. Let’s Talk About Sex: When It’s Okay to Gabĭo confide in a trusted friend. For your safety, don’t take a chance on online sex. You have no way of knowing who you are chatting with or if what you're hearing is true. But in reality, it can be anything but, Kuriansky cautions. “Talking dirty” with someone you meet in a chat room may seem perfectly safe - after all, it’s on the computer or smartphone and not in person.
According to the same Trojan survey, 18 percent of respondents said they have had sex with someone they met over the internet. Fess up to your most trusted friends only.ĭon’t initiate online sex. “If you willy-nilly blab out all your sex complaints to just anybody, you open yourself up to all kinds of chatter,” Kuriansky says. It’s perfectly fine to confide in a friend about what goes on in your bedroom, but you may want to make sure that pal isn’t the town gossip. You never know who may overhear you and repeat what they heard to the wrong people.ĭon’t spill the beans to just anyone. On the phone with a friend at your desk? Leave conversations about sex for when you get home (or at least well out of earshot of anyone else). Why? Things can easily get misconstrued, and you could find yourself in trouble with your boss, coworkers, or company policies, Kuriansky says. You might think it’s okay to make an innocent comment to colleagues about your sex life - but the workplace is one place sexual chatter doesn’t belong. Not only can just about anyone see what you’re posting, those dirty details stay out there in cyberspace for a long time (even post-breakup).ĭon’t bring sex talk to the office. Tweeting about a sexual rendezvous “is riddled with all kinds of potential problems,” says Judy Kuriansky, PhD, a clinical psychologist and sex therapist and author of The Complete Idiot’s Guide to a Healthy Relationship. Still, a recent survey from the condom-makers Trojan revealed that 10 percent of respondents have discussed sex on Facebook or Twitter. When you share intimate details online, you risk losing the trust of your partner and the closeness you have as a couple. The golden rule of talking about sex? Keep it off social networks, says Dana Fillmore, PsyD, a psychologist in Del Mar, Calif., who specializes in marriage and is co-founder of. Let’s Not Talk About Sex: When to Keep Your Lips Sealedĭon’t post your sex-capades online. Here are the dos and don’ts of talking about your sex life. But when it comes to your sex life, there’s some information you should keep hush-hush, say experts. In today’s social-media-driven world, it can be tempting to over-share juicy details with your inner-circle.
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Do you call up your best friend for a quick brag session, email a few of your closest pals, or update your Facebook status (“Attention, America: We’ve still got it!”)? I won’t use them again, for sure.You and your partner just had the best sex you’ve had in years (cheers!) - and now you can’t help but want to share your good news. Many businesses have really risen to the challenge and made a really good job of adapting to the lockdown. When we got home, part of the order was missing (sushi, which clearly hadn’t needed to be kept warm with the rest of it), and the rest of it was soggy, and ranged in temperature from tepid to stone cold. “Oh yes!” they said, and rushed off to retrieve, from an insulated bag, our order, packed up and ready to go.
The third time that I tried to ask about my order, they finally clocked me. I stood there, and no-one paid me the blindest bit of attention.
They rushed backwards and forwards, shouting out Deliveroo numbers, and the Deliveroo guys rushed in and rushed out again. There were three members of staff, all flat out. After about 10 mins I realised that, against my better judgement, I would also need to enter the premises, and perhaps hope for some attention there instead. If it wasn’t, they stayed inside to wait. On arrival, they barged into the tiny restaurant premises, bags on backs, to find out whether their order was ready. But of course it wasn’t a queue, it was a gathering of Deliveroo drivers/riders, many of whose orders weren’t yet ready, and who kept on coming. Believing this to be a queue (of sorts) we joined it, and waited. Arrived at 7.15 to find four or five Deliveroo guys on the pavement outside. We ordered a meal at 6.45, to pick up at 7.15. I am writing his review in the hope that someone from management will read it and sort their systems out.
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